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January 11, 2013

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Jeff Palomino

Alan - Thanks for posting so many thoughtful articles on this topic. You'ver really stimulated my thinking. I agree 100% with you. One thing, however, that needs to be clarified just a touch is your statement that Christians believe "people can change through the power of Jesus." I believe this as should every Christian. I've also experienced it as has every Christian. What I want believers to be clear about, though, is what we mean by "change" when it comes to homosexuality. "Change" can mean two things. First, it can mean change in a person's heart (i.e., sanctification). This changes is done by the power of the holy spirit after we've become Christ followers and as we walk with him, seeking him daily, and living in his kingdom. Anyone can experience this change - heterosexual or homosexual. The other kind of "change", though, that many Christians want to put on homosexuals is much harder - this is that homosexuals can change their orientation. Let me say this - I firmly believe many homosexuals choose to be gay. In addition, many who are not gay, are raised in an environment or with painful external factors that make them turn out gay. However, and this is where we need to be clear when we really try to love homosexuals - while many choose the lifestyle and others are brought into it, some do not choose it at all are simply are oriented that way. This is kind of provocative to say because many evangelicals think homosexuals choose to be gay. One won't go far in loving them if you have that as the going in position because some do not choose that orientation; they choose the lifestyle, but not the orientation. Now, that doesn't mean they should engage in a homosexual lifestyle (i.e., sexual immorality). That's the sin. It also doesn't mean that Jesus can't change them (both sanctify them as well as miraculously change their orientation). What we need to understand, though, in walking with someone who is gay, but trying to live for Jesus is - like all of us - not a simple behavioral switch to turn off/on. This is a deep, deep sincere struggle for some people. I know when you referred to change you meant changed by Jesus in every way the gospel can change people. However, some think very narrowly and say for a homosexual to come to Christ it comes with a condition that they change a trait about themselves, which, sadly, sometimes they feel they cannot. Again, the final focus must be on the gospel. I just want Christians to have credibility and compassion in this, which I know you certainly do. Just not sure if others always do. Appreciate you mucho, brother!

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